As the cliché goes – women are from Venus and men are from a completely different planet. (Not Sure Which One). It’s no wonder then they never understand each other. However, both men and women are destined to spend their lives on earth, with each other for company.
The thing about affairs of the heart is – they are simple. The only reason it seems all so complicated is that women and men have an instinctive ignorance for each other. If only we knew what the other wanted, for instance, what made men take tick, life would be so much easier for all of us.
So, for years custom and traditions, religion and cults have tried to give us so many different formulas to make men fall in love with us. Love spells and hexes, little rites and rituals. But finally, science is giving us the answers to questions where witchcraft failed. Psychologists are plumbing the depths of what makes men and women tick. And are finally telling us sure shot ways that can ensure that men fall, hopelessly in love.
Let us see how to make a man fall in love with you in a 6 easy steps.
1. Let Your Body Speak Volumes
According to researchers, we are constantly speaking to each other, with our bodies. It seems that we are sending out constant signals with body language. You can alter your body language slightly to make sure that you become so much more attractive to the man of your choice.
How? It is simple. Science tells us that when people find each other attractive, or are excited in the presence of someone else, they tend to blink more often. So – blink more often. It tells us the other person unconsciously that you like them, and they are more liable to reciprocate. It will also help if you lean forward while talking to him or constantly touch parts of your body like your hair and bare arms.
2. Enter His Comfort Zone
We all have a space around ourselves which is personal space. We are instantly aware when someone else invades this space. So, invade his personal space. Stand or sit very close to him. This will make him aware of your presence every second. Also, make sure that you are near him as often as possible without being too intrusive.
3. Imitate, Imitate and Imitate
This is a pretty mean trick which will make him fall for you like a ton of bricks. So what do you do? Become his mirror image. If you are in a bar, sip on a drink when he does. If he is sitting in a particular position, copy his posture. If he uses some words and phrases more often in conversation, use them too. However there is one catch – you cannot make it too obvious.
4. Bare Your Heart
Tell him about yourself. The more he knows about you, the more he will be comfortable around you. Playing the mystery woman does not work. However, do not monopolize the conversation. Encourage him to share too. Know his likes and dislikes, strong opinions and heart’s desires. And let him know yours.
5. Get Him Excited
NO, not just sexually, but by participating in activities that help secrete the adrenaline hormone. It could be adventure sports or just a visit to the nearest theme park. Something that gets his blood pumping and is fun. When one is excited, it is easier for one to be more attracted to someone else.
6. Be Yourself
Although it is great to make a good first impression, keep in mind while doing all this, you have to remember that you want him to fall in love with you. The real you. So, always remember to be yourself and not someone else you think he wants.
According to science of the heart, if you follow these 6 steps you will have a much better understanding than most women of what makes a man fall in love and eliminating much of the competition.